RIP Gran
It is not often that I pay tribute to somebody, but if I could be so bold I would like to do so to my Gran who died last week aged 93. Elizabeth Williams was a unique woman in so many ways, but why should I write about her on a sports blog you may wonder?
Well, other than the fact I can do what I want on this site, she was, believe it or not, given my own lack of horse-riding expertise, one of the first female jockeys in the country to race with and against men.
In the late 1930s, before she joined the Army and drove tanks and lorries from army base to army base to help the Second World War effort, Gran was one of the best female riders in the North of England, a feminist before feminism was invented and who, as one of five children growing up near Bolton in Lancashire was, by her own admission, something of a Tom Boy.
Fed up with being patronised by men on horseback, Gran, who never liked to shirk a challenge - and who never used oven gloves to take a Lancashire Hot Pot out of the oven or went to see the doctor when she was ill, who taught me to ride a bike and countless card games and who never complained when I wanted a sandwich or a piece of homemade chocolate cake - rode the famous Holcombe Hunt course at Harwood near Bolton to widespread acclaim.
As a result, Ladies races were introduced at Holcombe and spread to point-to-point events all around the country. Gran never sought any credit for what she had done in the name of equal opportunities because all she cared about was riding. Even when she broke her nose (twice) and cracked her ribs in falls, all she wanted to do was get back on a horse as quickly as possible.
As a city boy, her grandson never followed in the family tradition, but I thank her for so much and will always remember the wonderful times I had with her, on horseback or not! Goodbye but never forgotten.
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hi Luke, just wanted to say how touching this little piece you wrote about gran was to me.
Sadly I couldn't make the funeral, Vittorio was working away and it just wasn't practical with the kids. However, I said a prayer and thought of you all.
She was a very strong lady and looked well for her age right up 'till the end. I share your memories- she taught me to ride a bike too! Also she taught me to ride 'conker,' still got the rosette I won somewhere! It's a sad time of loss,and you miss their presence, but when you love someone so much, they are a part of you and after a while, the sadness is replaced with happiness as you remember the good times, life lessons they taught you and most of all a gratefulness for being honoured to have known them.
Take good care luke- keep your chin up! xxx